Friday, 14 June 2013

Of Grandmothers and Granddaughters

Here are just a few photos of my grandmother looking rather lovely from a recent walk.








My grandmother is the archetypal stylish matriarch and I have long envied the jackets and scarves and handbags in her collection. However it is her intrisic 'style' that transcends her wardrobe, an ability to team pieces together and always dress appropriately for every occasion, that I have always aspired to. It is as much in the way that she moves and holds her head as it is her shoes that makes her look so effortless and this elegance manifests itself around her in her home and garden and children as well.

Spending time with my grandmother as an adult has helped me considerably to see beyond the next ten years and further into my future. I know a lot of people who want to live fast and not consider the consequences but there are as many as thirty years post-retirement that can be some of the most wonderful years of your life if you have planned carefully. And thirty years is a very long time, it's longer than I have even been alive, so it is very foolish indeed not to begin to plan for that time. Financial capital and a large and stable family are the greatest assets you can have at a later age and are what will grant the freedom to live comfortably and happily. There is a saying that teenagers have time and energy but no money, adults have money and energy but no time and the elderly have time and money but no energy. But really that is an ideal scenario as all too often older people have only a dwindling amount of time. I want to enjoy my life and that means my old age too so I feel privileged to be able to learn from my grandmother about how to age gracefully and plan for the future while it counts.

Thursday, 30 May 2013

Street Art in Manila

As I've already mentioned, I view graffiti as a wonderful creative addition to cities and love to find examples of it in the countries I visit. When there are large expanses of brick such as along riversides or by bridges, graffiti transforms them into exhibitions of local talent, adding welcome colour to drab surroundings. They also frequently provide an uncensored indication of the pride and troubles of a country as viewed by its citizens. Manila did not disappoint.












A cultural day out in Intramuros

After three weeks in Manila I still hadn't left Makati so on my third weekend the new intern and I headed out to explore Intramuros, the old Spanish part of town.

First up was a trip to the San Agustin church and monastery. The palm trees and dark stone walls of the exterior immediately fulfilled my Jungle Book inspired notion of exoticism.






Inside were a multitude of elaborately dressed icons.







I love finding old maps like the one below. We always think it's so outrageous how Spain or America can be triple their size and at the centre of the map but people forget that the world map is still inaccurate today. I was recently surprised to discover that Algeria has a greater land mass than Greenland. You would never expect that judging from a classroom map.



Our next stop was Casa Manila, an old colonial house still on display. I love visiting old houses, seeing the furniture and glassware still as it was, slippers laid out beside the beds. Perhaps it's the history graduate in me, but I always try to picture the former inhabitants sitting at their desks and going about their business as I walk through. Unfortunately photography was forbidden inside but I did take a quick snap of the courtyard which has some of the romantic air of the interior.


We finished the day with a brief visit to the Manila Hotel. Built in 1912 it is a landmark of American colonial opulence. Past clientele have ranged from Marlon Brando to Prince Charles and you can envision gentlemen in white suits reclining in armchairs as you walk through the lobby. The sun was setting at this point and we sat at Manila Bay until it dipped beneath the waves. The pollution in Manila gives a particular hazy, burnt quality to the sunset which is really quite magnificent to see.


Tired and culturally fulfilled we headed home and planned the next adventure.

Wednesday, 29 May 2013

Karaoke

Along Jupiter Street, hidden above some restaurant or other, there is a 24 hour karaoke bar called Top Grill which became our regular haunt while in Manila. Now, this is not karaoke as Europeans and Americans know it, where it is acceptable, and at times commendable, to drunkenly caterwaul in front of your equally drunk friends and family. No, this is Filipino Karaoke which means perfect renditions of any love song or ballad ever made to applause which depends more on your performance than your popularity.

We only had one girl brave enough or able enough to sing in front of a room of Filipinos, perhaps the most vocally talented race on Earth, and thankfully she gladly wowed the room every time it was our turn, becoming a minor celebrity at the bar and allowing us all to bask in her reflected glory and accept the occasional free drink.



While I, unable to complete Happy Birthday in tune, never got up to sing I still had an exceptionally good time and ended each night as happy as can be.

The Reading Club 2000

Nani Guanlao had to be the most interesting person I met in Manila. After coming across an article on his library, the Reading Club 2000, the day I arrived, I was convinced straight away that it had to be visited and so, on my first weekend, I headed to Balagtas Street in La Paz with two friends to find the reading guru himself and get some free books!

The Reading Club 2000 was begun, you guessed it, in 2000 as a tribute to Nani's deceased parents. He hoped to do something that would enable their legacy to live on, that would benefit the community and that would bring joy to himself and those around him. With limited resources at his disposal he decided to turn his family home into a 24 hour library. The interesting thing about this library though is that you don't need to return any of the books and you can take as many as you want. 

Very swiftly he became a local hero and now for every book that goes out ten more come in. His efforts to help Filipinos gain greater access to reading didn't stop there though. Every month he packs his car to the brim with novels and textbooks and travels out to the provinces handing out books to those with limited access. In Manila he holds reading sessions for local children and now even some movie screenings. His house has now become a pilgrimage for book lovers the world over and I think it is safe to say that he has achieved something truly great that his parents would be proud of. 

When we arrived we were greeted warmly and invited inside to peruse the books and wander about the house. The collection is vast and incredibly wide ranging, from Pat Barker to Jose Rizal, Introductory Mechanics to E.H. Carr. We browsed through the books on offer, paused to sit on sofas to read a while and  explored his beautiful and cheerful house.




After reading so many, many books Nani has developed his own set of philosophies, and what makes the Reading Club 2000 better than any library, is that he will happily sit down and share his eclectic wisdom with you. I wish that I had written down more of what he said as I sat entranced for nearly an hour as he talked about the importance of reading, education and the English language, of how books have lives, and Eastern mysticism. He also spoke a lot about health. Some of his ideas were more controversial than others, such as the importance of iodine (which he attributes to his health and impressive head of hair at his age) and the need to defy gravity at at every opportunity. Sitting on a high chair so that your legs can swing, for example, he attributed to helping children focus in class. If the chairs were too low their grades would suffer.

One thing in particular I did write down as I thought it was not only a brilliant business notion but also so very true.

'Find something that other people think is waste and work with that. You'll be surprised by how much value there is in waste.'




This is an extract from his short essay, 'The Art of Giving and Receiving Books':

'As a child, we first learn to give and receive in visible ways- we're fed, clothed, and sheltered and we learn to feed, clothe, and nourish, and care, for others. As we mature, we undertake other vital acts of caring- we serve as listeners to our friends and loved ones; we encourage them and pray for them; we grow in our effectiveness in the world and learn to help and empower others.

Learning to manage our personal power means that we have to become aware of how we work with our energy and whom to give it to. It's also about how much we are willing to surrender to divine guidance, which often comes to us in the guise of intuition. By finding our inner compass and acting on its promptings, we come into ouR full power and fulfill the life mission that we were born to complete. This mission includes not just the daily work we do, but every relationship we have and every person we meet, everyone we help, and everyone who needs it.'



I left with a mind filled with new ideas, a copy of Virginia Woolf's 'The Lighthouse' and Vladimir Nabakov's Lolita and vowed to return with armfuls of books in exchange. 

The Reading Club 2000, 1454 Balagtas Street, Barangay, La Paz, Makati City, Philippines 1204.
Mobile: (0195) 9027657/  (0195)7291526
www.readingclub.com
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The Philippines- Arrival

For the past three months I have been in the Philippines, the first two spent interning at a major animal rights charity in Manila and the last month backpacking around various islands. It was, undeniably, the most incredible experience of my life to date. Unfortunately, I failed miserably at documenting it, so I will try to re-cap my time there over a number of posts so my magical Filipino days don't disappear into the black hole that has replaced my memory.

Upon arriving in Manila in the middle of February, I was picked up from the airport by my lovely boss and taken to the intern condo. This far exceeded my expectations. With the knowledge that I was working for a charity I had pictured a spartan dormitory in a rather suspect neighbourhood. Instead I was driven to a beautiful high rise apartment in the financial district with two balconies, sofas, a tv, and even a pool on the roof.


Feeling jet lag for the first time in my life, I fell asleep early ready to begin my first day of work the next morning.

The office turned out be an incredibly welcoming and friendly environment. There were two dogs, both rescues, who were scampering around constantly. The youngest, Saske, was the cheekiest, most energetic imp you can imagine with a fetish for ankle biting. He was also completely adorable and loved nothing more than to be carried, happily falling asleep on my lap on several occasions while I worked.

After work finished my fellow interns, and a new staffer, went out for drinks together at a nearby mall called Greenbelt. We had a great time getting to know each other while experimenting with free cocktails (on a tuesday ladies drink for free-spectacular idea) and bonding over animal rights. We entertained ourselves for a while discussing the baffling determination of every non vegan/vegetarian to 'debate' the subject with us, usually by giving ridiculous ultimatums such as 'what if you had the choice between finding the cure for AIDS/cancer or killing one mouse' or, my personal favourite, 'what if a serial killer had your mum and a cow and only one could live?'
One of the things that made me smile in Manila were the old fashioned English names that were incredibly popular over there. The barman that night was called Gilbert which is a fantastic name that I never hear people having any more. Other popular names were Gertrude, Margaret, Edwina, Verity and Judith, all of a decidedly different era in England and sweet to hear in use.

The rest of the week was spent learning the ropes and settling into the rhythm of life in Manila. My roommate was a lovely girl from China who spent much of her free time watching horror movies. I used to be very enthusiastic about horror films when I was a teenager until I realised that I could no longer sleep with the light on and replayed various scenes in my mind from The Ring or The Exorcist any time I was home alone. I've since avoided them like the plague and I was amazed to see her so completely nonchalant while death-curdling screams and sinister music resonated from her laptop. One night I attempted to watch one with her on the balcony, but the other flatmate and I spent most of our time looking in the opposite direction and talking through scary parts until we gave up and watched Sex and the City.
I had a brilliant first week at work and was pleasantly surprised at how taken care of interns were. Any problems were answered before you could formulate the question and it was made clear that the staff were there to help at any time, work related or personal, although wonderfully, problems never seemed to crop up in that happy land.

Wednesday, 29 February 2012

Leap Year Resolutions

For the last three days since randomly reading an article on animal testing for Lipton tea I have been glued to Peta's webpage watching very disturbing videos on animal testing and the food industry. Pigs boiled alive, monkeys with their eyes sewn shut strapped to what can only be described as torture tables, rabbits having toxins poured into their eyes and dogs having their hind legs broken and their vocal chords cut so that they can be more easily experimented on through forced ingestion of poison among other things. Pretty gruesome stuff. I used to wonder where the writers of horror movies got there ideas from.. no longer. Jeepers Creepers isn't a patch on what is going on every day in the cosmetics industry.

So, having been sufficiently traumatised by these videos and subsequently realising that every single shampoo, face cream, toothpaste or laundry detergent that I use has been tested on animals I have decided to take a little responsibility in my role in this system that allows animals to suffer for the sake of capitalism and make some changes.

As of today I am not going to be using my consumer buying power to buy meat, milk, cheese or any products tested on animals.

This is a huuuuuge commitment.

Proctor & Gamble, Unilever, GlaxoSmithKline, L'Oreal.. they ALL test on animals and between them they pretty much own every cosmetics or household product that you see on a supermarket's shelves.
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That means no more Pantene, TRESemme, Herbal Essences, Estee Lauder, Biotherm, Lancome, Clinique, Persil, Fairy, Chanel, Dior, Vaseline, Dove, Vicks, MaxFactor or Maybelline, to name but a few. Even The Body Shop was recently taken over by L'Oreal and now has been taken off Peta's list of companies that do not test on animals. The problem is that even if the finished product itself has not been tested on animals (in the case of companies such as Chanel or Clinique) the ingredients have been, often making it very tricky to know if the product you are buying is cruelty free.. 
I did a little quiz on the Peta website and, as a person who eats meat every day, if I stop now I would be saving the lives of 24,360 animals. That is a vast amount of animals whose deaths I would have directly contributed to by buying meat. And if I add on to that number the amount of animals who have suffered so that I can wear makeup, take paracetamol, wear leather shoes, clean my clothes or do the washing up my mind simply boggles. I've always loved animals, never bought fur, had many pets but I never realised just how much I was using my buying power to fund their misery. Now to clarify this doesn't mean I will never use a product that has been tested on animals again or eat chicken. If I'm staying at somebody's house and they cook meat I'll eat it or if I stay at a friend's house and I want to use their make-up remover I will. I know that sounds quite hypocritical but our lives are so saturated by this system it would be virtually impossible (for me at least) to swear off ever touching anything that reached me through an animal's suffering. What I'm vowing to do is never to use my money to purchase any of these foodstuffs or products. When you buy something it's like casting a vote. Companies make their decisions based on consumer demand. I'm using my money to vote for something I agree with. 
My leap year resolution will be to follow the leaping bunny on the back of products that are cruelty free. So that I can keep a few more bunnies looking like this.

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